How The Law Of Attraction Can Help You Lose Weight
In your subconscious thoughts every subject you focus on transforms into an image in your mind. For example, when you think of a car usually you don’t see in your minds’ eye the word C-A-R but a picture of a car you know pops into your head. Food is a perfect example of this. Whenever you think about food, your subconscious mind releases an energy frequency and, according to the Law of Attraction, you are attracted to food.
This is precisely the basis for your weakness for food after announcing you are going to start a diet. From that point on, you start to obsess about food, count calories, and let the entire world know about your diet. The only thing left for your subconscious to do is get some food!
How does it work?
The Law of Vibration
Every individual projects energy. This energy is communicated in the human body as feelings. When you experience positive emotional sensations (happiness, joy, fun, pleasure etc.), you emit positive energy. However, when you have negative feelings (remorse, anger, pain, frustration, tension, etc.), you emanate negative energy. This is why you usually can sense the energy when entering an unfamiliar place or meeting new people, whether that energy is joy, anger, boredom, etc. More often than not, you can pick up on the energy that other people emit, which is typically interpreted via body language, a certain pitch of voice, and a general sense of attraction, or lack of attraction toward them.
Your thoughts determine your feelings and your energy frequency is then attuned accordingly. In order to change a frequency that you evaluate as negative and that limits the achievement of your goals, you must change your thoughts until you experience good feelings, and your energy frequency will then be modified appropriately.
Your energy has immense power. This power comes from:
The Law of Attraction
In general, you attract people, situations, experiences, and physical conditions in accordance to the energy you project via sensations generated by your mind and body. Good feelings attract other things that feel good. For instance, try to remember when someone last gave you a compliment. Isn’t it true that the rest of day was much more positive and fun? The energy aroused by the compliment attracted additional positive events and thoughts.
For this reason, you must be exceedingly aware of your thoughts and feelings in order to attract the things you desire. What also helps is:
The Power of Focus
Anything you focus on, positive or negative, happens and/or becomes enlarged. Women who are trying to get pregnant are very sensitive to the pregnant women they see and think that everyone is pregnant except for them.
When someone plans to buy the latest model car, suddenly all they see is that every other car is the same model as the one they want. This power stems from the integration of these three laws.
First, you focus on something, then, you emit a certain energy accompanied by the mindset you have toward it, and finally the Law of Attraction introduces it into your life.
When you focus on something, you infuse it with energy and inspire emotion until it grows and becomes part of your reality–for better or for worse.
Therefore it is better that you focus on your desired END RESULT, i.e. your desired weight, pant size, and the thin feeling when achieving your goal.
This is why people who obsess on food and drink gain weight. Interestingly, it works both if we want food and if we do not want it. As an old Chinese maxim says, “What you resist persists.” This means that everything you resist, through anger and negative energy, will intensify and grow! As long as you fight your weight and appearance you will get fat!
But why?
The focus is directed at food, fat, and external appearance while the feeling attached is extremely negative, and leads to an endless revisiting of negative issues and emotions. This, of course, results in weight gain, or, if all goes well, no more than weight maintenance.
This means that if you want to lose weight you should focus on the final result you want, such as a specific weight and/or an ideal appearance. Stop focusing on food, and instead, start now to focus on your ideal self and begin broadcasting positive energy to your mirror!
To Your Success,
Adi & Nehama
Nehama Sever and Adi Shaviv
Authors of the book “Why Am I Not Thin Yet?”
Founders of “Gold Mind The Science of Prosperity”
International Self-Development Speakers and Mentors
Think Your Way Thin Webinars
Can Losing Weight Be Easy and Fun?
To all the people who have been dealing with being overweight for so many years it sounds almost impossible doesn’t it? Losing weight, having fun & being healthy.
For example, a person on a diet has already tried the Cabbage Soup Diet, Atkins Diet, Weight Watchers, and read every book in existence on dieting. They have been dieting and struggling with eating habits for most of their life.
This person can tell us about an endless war with food, their habits, the anger and frustration of breaking a diet, complete with all the disappointment and despair.
Believe me, if there was a better way, they would do it.
Well, we know they would have done it if only they knew how to lose weight easily and have fun at the same time. The point is that this seems too good to be true. Is there such an animal?
Some people, when being introduced to this way of dieting for the first time are skeptic. Still we see a speck of hope in their eyes wanting to believe it is possible.
Our own experience and the results our student’s have had prove that it does work.
The common approach towards weight loss and diets is suppressing our appetite. We try to restrain our urge to eat, our appetite, limit our eating, and judge ourselves brutally.
To all the people who have lost a few pounds and gained it back using this approach within less than a year over a period of few months; it’s time to see that:
Struggle and suppression is not a good strategy. Even when the result of the war is losing weight over a period of time, the achievement will fade away.
Why? Because war and fighting are tiring and eventually you feel weak and small.
The point is to be thinner and still feel strong and empowered.
You cannot achieve a real change in your appearance without altering your inner processes and thinking patterns. One of the most important changes is to become empowered, start believing in you and acknowledge your amazing gifts as you are right now.
When you look within and discover the thoughts, beliefs, and habits that are responsible for your current weight and weaknesses, change them from the inside and do it guided by peace and effortlessly. Then and only then the change will last.
The fact that this process is done with peace and empowerment gives you the strength to maintain your new self and the changes you made to better all aspects of your life.
Still don’t believe it’s possible to lose weight easily and having fun doing it?
Try it!!!! What’s the worse that can happen to you?
A Healthy Weight Loss? You May Succeed?
To get information on how to do it, please keep reading our blog.
To the new successful and powerful — YOU.
Nehama Sever and Adi Shaviv
Authors of the book “Why Am I Not Thin Yet?”
Founders of “Gold Mind The Science of Prosperity”
International Self-Development Speakers and Mentors
Think Your Way Thin Webinar
How Can the Law of Attraction Help You Lose Weight and Stay Thin?
Much has been said on how the Law of Attraction can help you get richer, wealthier and happier, but less has been said on how it can help you lose weight and stay slim forever!
It might sound different than what you are used to hearing, but yes, you can attract a fit, healthy good looking body with the help of the Laws of Attraction.
How can you start doing it right now?
Remember, your thoughts determine your reality.
You can see it in everything you do. When you have good thoughts about yourself such as, “I know I do it well”; “I am the best at….”; “It is easy for me”; this is where you create and attract things easily. Let’s say that I know I am good with computers and any new software is easy for me to learn. I am not afraid of it.
But, in the areas that I don’t excel is when I think negative thoughts such as: “I’d better not touch it or I’ll ruin it” or “this is not for me”.
The moment you are able to believe that you are getting better at something is the moment you ARE getting better at it!
So, if you believe that you are a lousy cook, but you really wish to surprise your family once with a nice meal, the day you say: “I can do it, I can be a good cook”, will you give it a chance and try. From time to time, and with practice, you’ll get much better. True?
Losing weight and being thin is just the same.
When you think “fat” thoughts, you attract “fat” reality. You believe that you are overweight or obsessed and your reality proves to you that it is true. In order for you to be able to succeed and lose weight easily you MUST think thin thoughts!
How?
Ask yourself what thin people are thinking like.
Ask yourself how you think they act with food.
Ask yourself how they treat their body.
Now start applying the answers you gave in your life!
For example, if you think someone is burning a lot of fat, start telling yourself that you can start burning fat too. Look for proof in your life where you already burn fat. Is it while you walk (even if it is just around the house)? Is it when you do housework? Remind yourself that every action you do – you are burning fat!
The amazing thing that happens is that you start thinking positive “thin” thoughts, and you “forget” for a while to think “fat” thoughts. Even though you didn’t change a thing in your daily routine your new thoughts will start attracting a new “thin” reality.
In order to get the best results it is crucial at this stage to practice new thin thoughts on a daily basis for between 31 to 52 days.
The effort is worth it. All you need to do is choose to think differently. You can think while you are in your car, at work, before going to sleep… all day long…
If you want proof of how “fat” stressing thoughts make you overweight, go to our Blog post that talks about Cortisol (Proof: Why Stressing Out Makes You Gain Weight).
Here are some “thin” thoughts to help you:
“I eat until I am full.”
“I love my reflection.”
“I lose weight every day.”
“I love to exercise.”
“My metabolism improves every day.”
“I am in control of my life, my thoughts, and choices.”
“I am truly amazing.”
We’ve been where you are at and our goal is to help people. So, Be sure to sign-up for our newsletter or check out when our next “Think Your Way Thin” webinar is.
To Your Success!
Gratefully yours,
Nehama Sever and Adi Shaviv
Authors of the book “Why Am I Not Thin Yet?”
Founders of “Gold Mind The Science of Prosperity”
International Self-Development Speakers and Mentors
Why Do Diets Fail? Great Tips for Successful Dieting
When so many people know how to lose weight and they can even write a book about it and when there are so many diet options available, why do so few people actually succeed with diets? We’ve asked hundreds of people how is it they don’t get slimmer faster if they know all the latest dieting tips.
Here are a few common responses:
- “I don’t have time for a strict diet program and to cook all that special food.”
- “My will power isn’t strong enough to keep me on my diet.”
- “I hate sports and I love carbs.”
- “Between work and taking care of my kids, I’m just not able to follow a strict diet program.”
- “My weight problem is genetic; I just can’t lose those extra 10 pounds.”
- “I hardly eat and I still can’t lose this extra weight.”
- “I can’t get skinny fast or even slowly.”
Common to all of these statements is the fact that they are all just thoughts. What’s more, they are all limiting thoughts that prevent people from following a diet and achieving their weight loss goals. Despite having opposite intentions, thoughts as “I don’t have time” or “I don’t have strong enough will power” cause you to stop your diet.
Which of the following diets have you tried? Atkins diet? Low Fat diet? Cabbage Soup diet? South Beach diet? Did you lose weight? Did you stay slim, or did it all come back after a while?
Changing your diet (what you eat daily) is not enough. In order to keep your desired weight you must change your thinking and accordingly your eating habits! By fighting what you eat – it can’t last! You must love your new way of life in order for it to continue!
Healthy, productive thoughts motivate us into action. Stressful thoughts (i.e. “I have to stop eating and start exercising”) lead us to non-action, leaving us just as we were before with no considerable change and without the results we desire.
What if there was a practical way for you to achieve weight loss without having negative thoughts? What if you could get out of the diet “war zone” forever and maintain your ideal weight without being at constant battle with yourself? Wouldn’t this be better than what you’ve experienced in the past? We’re betting that you’re answer is an immediate and emphatic “Yes!”
So here are some great weight loss tips:
- Get rid of all the clothes that don’t fit you right now or make you look unattractive. Get dressed like a model everyday no matter what your weight is at the moment. By looking good now, your subconscious will raise your self-esteem and help you keep your diet. Maybe it sounds “unusual”, but only after you try it you’ll understand that it really does work! Try to imagine it now. Every time you open your closet you have great clothes to wear (go get a new outfit that looks great on you now too!)
- Take out one gorgeous pair of pants that is one or two sizes smaller than what your current size is. Hang it where you can see it on a daily basis and PROMISE yourself that you are going to wear it soon! Be happy about it! Be excited about that!
- Find a photo of yourself where you are happy about the way you look (thinner, happier, etc.) Make at least 5 copies of that photo and hang it up all over your house and office. Remind your subconscious the way you want to look!
- Make the new supporting thoughts that are listed below a part of your internal dialogue and life from now on:
“Whenever I walk around the house I lose weight.”
“Every time I look at the mirror I see how good looking I am.”
“Each apple I eat makes me thinner.”
“I lose weight even when I am asleep.”
“I enjoy keeping my diet.”
If you want to learn more tips and techniques that will help you lose weight fast and stay slim forever, you are invited to sign-up for our free newsletter up on the top right, or on: www.WhyAmINotThinYet.com
Gratefully yours,
Nehama Sever and Adi Shaviv
Authors of the book “Why Am I Not Thin Yet?”
Founders of “Gold Mind The Science of Prosperity”
International Self-Development Speakers and Mentors
Decide to Lose Weight and Be Healthy
How many times have you decided to start a new diet? Whatever diet that was (Low Carb Diet, Mediterranean Diet, South Beach, Cabbage Soup Diet, Protein Diet, Liquid Diet, etc.), did you manage to stick with it?
Let’s talk about deciding to diet.
The word decision comes from two Latin words.
“De” –meaning “from”, and “Ceadere” - meaning “to cut”. This is when you make a decision to do something (in this case starting a diet) and at that very moment any other option is not even considered. Even if we meet difficulties staying on the diet we have no choice but to carry on.
When we start a new diet every week we are not making a decision to diet we are only making a wish to lose weight. The problem is that your subconscious receives the message that you are not serious about dieting. Thus the diet never works.
When do decisions regarding diets actually work?
When people experience a trauma such as an illness, or when they lose someone close to them due to being overweight, they are more motivated to totally change their habits and suddenly it seems that following a diet is easy. They discover that they don’t have “to go on a diet” every other day and most likely will begin to live their life differently.
How can you follow your diet program without difficulty?
There are two major elements to be aware of about your decision to diet:
One: Having an important reason to diet helps keep you committed to the task and the diet is transformed into a healthy life style.
Ask yourself: What are your reasons for losing weight? Is it your health, or maybe your children, or your desire to be attractive to someone, or feel great about yourself? Maybe you want to be able to go to the beach without feeling ashamed of your body? What if you promised your loved ones or yourself to lose weight for these reasons? What are the odds you will succeed this time?
Two: The role your subconscious has on the success of your diet program.
If you have decided to diet many times before and failed, your subconscious will invariably fail you again. This pattern of deciding to start a diet and failing to follow it becomes a habit and your subconscious identifies it as such.
Following the same approach you will unconsciously fail your diet.
What you need to do.
Change the way you make decisions regarding diets.
The subconscious mind needs new programming regarding your decision to diet. It’s about time you stick to your decision to diet. To do that, decide to diet one day at a time.
Yes, every day, when you wake up, decide if you want to diet today. If so declare your decision to diet by saying out loud to yourself: “Today I promise myself and the people I care for, to keep my diet, to be healthy, happy and powerful. I will stick to my decision to diet all day. Tomorrow I will decide again.”
The decision to diet for one day at a time is much easier to follow. Your subconscious now sees that you stick to your decisions and promises about dieting and weight lose becomes natural.
Promising yourself and others to follow your diet today makes your commitment to your diet stronger.
Even if one day a week you decide not to diet remember that all together you managed to keep your diet 88% of the month! It is better than nothing!
Another very important decision we recommend is this:
I promise to love and respect myself no matter how I look, to see all the good in me and make it stronger and better.
Gratefully yours,
Nehama Sever and Adi Shaviv
Authors of the book “Why Am I Not Thin Yet?”
Founders of “Gold Mind: The Science of Prosperity”
International Self-Development Speakers and Mentors
Lose Weight – While Eating Chocolate Chip Cookies
“How do you do that? How do you eat cookies and cakes every time I see you, and still stay thin!?” This is something I hear all the time. Well, there is an easy answer for that, but it is never easy for the asking side to hear it…
My answer is: “I just eat it, and stay thin…”
I am deeply sorry if this is annoying you too, but here is the great news: I learned it and practiced it (and still am) so ANYONE can do that too!
It is truly easy, but the only thing you need to do in order for that to last forever, is forget all those things you’ve learned until now, and be willing to at least try what we are talking about for 3 months.
What is the worst thing that can happen? You’d lose some pounds?
So here are the main things that I practice:
1. I learned to LOVE what I see in the mirror, NO MATTER HOW MUCH I WEIGH!
2. I love my food. I eat with joy, and I thank my food for helping me keep my health and figure.
3. I stopped fighting and accusing myself for what I ate after eating. I actually FORGET what I eat, and give it no second thought after I eat.
4. I practiced with my subconscious to believe that the house chores that I do are helping me keep my weight off as if was exercising at the gym.
5. I practiced with my subconscious to believe my metabolism is getting better everyday.
Trust me, when you manage to do the same for 3 months (on a daily basis) your success is promised.
Learn how to practice these weight loss tips & techniques… and more!
Join our Webinar at: http://www.whyaminotthinyet.com/webinar1.htm
Sincerely yours,
Adi Shaviv
Diet Tips - How To Diet and Enjoy Food
Have you wondered what some great diet tips could do for you? All of us have had this feeling of declaring war with oneself when starting a diet. The point is that the minute you think of going on a diet you start thinking of all the food you’re not supposed to eat.
You try to go on a cabbage soup diet, and all you can think about is chocolate and bread that you are not allowed to eat. How can you follow your diet and stop fighting your desire to eat the forbidden food? Well, here comes your first diet tip…
The first thing you do is to give yourself the permission to eat one little treat a week or even every two days. How come? When you are allowed to eat something it stops being so attractive.
Keep only 2-3 treats you can eat every week in your house. A little trick on the subconscious mind is to keep them in the drawer where you keep those 2-3 allowed treats, like an apple, a carrot, a cucumber and other things you are allowed to eat while on a diet. Make them your treats too.
This way, when you feel like treating yourself, open the drawer and decide which treat its going to be today. You’ll be surprised to see that sometimes you actually choose cucumber over a little chocolate bar.
When you decide its OK to eat one to three treats a week it becomes a fun diet with no need to fight the desire to eat the forbidden foods.
We hope you enjoyed our first diet tip and invite you to our webinar filled with weight loss tips. You will learn how your thinking affects your weight and how to change your thinking to achieve your goals.
Enjoy and see you on our next blog!!!!
Nehama & Adi